So, I haven't been to the OBGYN for 16 years.
I went today.
After my initial scolding, here is the conclusion:
1. must return in 2 weeks for pap smear.
2. must have ultrasound next week due to history of ovarian cysts.
3. must have blood work due to history of ovarian cysts.
4. must have mammogram due to lump found in breast.
I cried.
Now, I have to find out where to get blood work, where to get mammograms, and how to keep myself together.
I'm not telling my parents.