OK, Val, so you are the only one reads this, I think.
At one time, Carrie and Susan did, too---but I don't think they check it anymore.
ANYWAY--my married friends say that sex is over-rated. (Most of them.) It is so tempting. I'm sure part of the lure is that it is forbidden..... but MAN is it tough!
Usually, I am not the one who draws the line. However, today, I was. It was hard....because if I had wanted to continue, he totally would have. It is funny to me that I think I actually wanted to preserve his virginity, not mine.
I've got a long road of cold showers ahead of me.
I hate that.
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It is a measure of how much you care about him that you're more concerned w/ preserving him than you. In that, you are in the same boat Bob Langston was in when his not-yet-then-wife came to him w/ the same struggle. He drew the line and they waited.
Let me tell you that once sex starts, the other things that are so special fall by the wayside. All the little things that you value and treasure- backrubs, holding hands, just kissing, all the necking, etc. Enjoy those things for what they are: treasures. You don't get them the same way after sex.
Sex may be overrated. You've had it on good authority that "Fritos are better than sex." While that still makes me laugh, it's not completely true. Sex is wonderful. Otherwise "everyone" wouldn't be doing it. Otherwise it wouldn't be so hard to decline. You know what you need to do. Are you looking for support or affirmation about doing it? How can I help? What can I do to help you two?
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