He is scared.

Ok, we met at Dunkin Donuts (a neutral place) tonight.
I cried and he said, "Is this really the place to talk about this?"
We moved to my car and I said what I went to say:
1. It makes me feel bad when you don't appreciate my cards.
2. It makes me feel bad that you don't want to be with me on Thanksgiving.
3. If you don't see this going anywhere, you better let me know right now!

His response: "I am usually the one giving and not receiving and I don't know what to do when you are nice to me. I do appreciate the cards, but I don't know how to tell you. I don't know why I let you give to me, but I can't open up to you."

He said, "I do want to be with you, but I don't know why I can't open up."

I said, "Yes, you do know why! You don't want to get hurt like you were before."
He just hung his head.

We left things with him saying he needs time. He said that I'm good at giving him alone time and time with his friends. I asked if he feels like he HAS to be with me. He says, "No, but I hate being alone and you being alone in your apartment or you working on a Saturday."

He says that he doesn't want to lead me on. He says that he promises to tell me if he doesn't see this going anywhere and he apologized for making me feel this way.

One more thing: he says that I'm right that he is scared. ( Last week, he said that he doesn't know what is wrong with him and I said, "I think you like me and that scares you.")