It bothered him!

So, tonight, after 2 nights of not talking to Gary, I went to his apartment.
I told him that I had needed time to come to a few conclusions: 1. he needs to decide if he can get over this hurt and 2. I need to decide if I can wait for that.
His response? It would have been nice if you had told me that.
I said: I didn't want to cry anymore to you and I didn't want to rehash it.
He said: A text would have been nice.
I said I was sorry.
When I was leaving, I asked for a hug.
As he was hugging me, he said, "Don't ever do that again."
I feel so much better.