1. I can not be a woman who goes to church while her husband stays home. Can you deal with that?
2. What is your sexual past like? Just how many partners HAVE you had?
3. Why did you get tested last summer?
4. Do you know that I'm getting birth control next week but not telling you yet?
5. Do you love me?
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i have learned something about questions --- YES, we women want answers
HOWEVER!!!! that being said, do we REALLY want to know the answers??? ONCE the answer is given the answer canNOT be taken back...
i don't know if you posted your questions because you really wanted a response or for yourself... but you "know" me....and you know i'm gonna comment based on my experience
1. I can not be a woman who goes to church while her husband stays home. Can you deal with that?
i would want this answer
2. What is your sexual past like? Just how many partners HAVE you had?
this is a dangerous one... you can't let his sexual past get into your head.... if you do, you start to wonder if he is compairing you to "THEM".... i happen to have stayed friends w/ a few of my ex's.... and have other guy friends... they have said that each of their ex's, there is something that was unique about each experience... but once they were with the RIGHT woman - the past disapeared
3. Why did you get tested last summer?
i would want to know if he had an STD to keep myself safe... but i wouldn't brake up w/ a guy over it either.. i would talk w/ my ob/gyn about it in general... and then specifics if you decided to have kids....
4. Do you know that I'm getting birth control next week but not telling you yet?
heh heh heh... every woman has this right.... but still make him use a condom
5. Do you love me?
NEVER ask this one.... let him say it on his own - NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU WANT HIM TO SAY IT... if you say it, let it come out of your mouth out of the blue, don't walk around waiting to say it... and remember - if you DO say it and he doesn't say it right back - it doesn't mean he doesn't feel it, he may just not be ready to say it - GUYS are dorks
just my opinion based on my experiency... i totally understand if you don't post it... i hope you aren't offended by anything i wrote...
and i DO hope the best for you ((((HUGS))))
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