OK, so I'm getting a bad rep for being a poor blogger.
(Or LAZY, according to Question Girl.)
Here's the thing. He doesn't have the Internet and this will be the first night that I've slept in my own bed since last Wednesday. (I KNOW!)
I am sleeping here tonight. He is coming to visit, but will not sleep over. There are 2 reasons for this: his dogs and my roommate.
He thinks that a couple should live together before they get married. I do not. He thinks we're living together because we had 5 consecutive sleep overs. I think I was just snuggling up to him, putting last night's clothes on, and coming home for a shower and work.
Regardless, I need to stop it. I do love sleeping next to someone.
He met my friends on Saturday. They all liked him. I drank A LOT and my friends were quite worried that he would take advantage of me. He didn't. They said, "We like him, but we just didn't know yet if he would take advantage." One friend said, "Don't let him slip away!"
I met his family on Sunday. They were really nice. They like me a lot-- because I am making him "settle down." I really haven't done anything. He just likes doing boring things with me, I guess.
Anyway, tonight, I'm sleeping alone. I'm not looking forward to it, but I know that I need it.
My question to those who read this is: when does it change from "sleeping over" to "living together?"
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2 comments:
you don't live together until you only have one matching set of keys,
and all of your belongings are in the same place, and both your and his mail is sent to the same address
until then, one of you is staying over at the other one's place - even if most of your clothing is there and you have a toothbrush there and you have a key
Hahahha. Good answers, QG. You're not living together because you're not at the same address, getting mail, running your lives together. You're not grocery shopping together, paying bills for the same residence, etc. =)
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