Hi.
Tonight was WW night. I talked to Marc on the way home from school and told him that I'd call him when I got home from the meeting, sometime between 7:00 and 8:00. We were on our way home and at 7:15, my phone is ringing. I decided to ignore it. He leaves a message. Then, I get a text that says something like, "You can't talk for a second when you are with them?" This made me angry. Then, he calls again. So, I answer. He asks if I know where his insurance book is because his tooth (which he pulled himself earlier this week with pliers) is infected and he is in great pain. I tell him that I don't. Then, he says, (really snotty) "Sorry to bother you when you are with your friends." I didn't say anything. (We are all in a car together and they are listening!) I said that I was sorry for not answering because I didn't realize that he was in pain. He says, "I love it when you ignore me like that." I told him that I'd be home in 15 minutes and I'd call him then.
When I called he apologized for being mean. It was the pain. It probably was.
I do feel badly that he is in pain and I ignored him, but all that I ask for is one night a week.
In other news: he asked me to move in yesterday.
I cannot.
We've also been talking about marriage.
Anyway...
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You are right to stick to your guns about one night a week. It is not too much to ask. Everyone needs time to themselves. And time w/ friends. I was hoping to see answers to QG's comment on your last post about how the discussions w/ friends went, by the way.
Pain does make people crabby, yes. I'm glad to hear he apologized about it.
I'm proud that you're not moving in with him. If you have any doubts about that, look at how God has rewarded Jen Crawford for not being unequally yoked! I'm also glad to hear you're talking about marriage. Might want to hold off on talks until after his tooth infection has healed- then you'll be sure it's him talking and not any drugs/ pain/ etc.
I love you.
HE PULLED IT HIMSELF?!?!?!?? sorry but he kind of deserves the infection...
stick to your guns...
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