OK, so tonight is Thursday. That means Weight Watchers with friends. (Usually, I look forward to this, but "friends" have been less than supportive about Marc, so I've been hating Thursdays, but ANYWAY.)
Marc called twice (once in response to a text that I sent requesting a photo text of his kid) and texted twice. I tried to be slick about it, but I could see the groans and looks from friends.
I talked to him when I got home and asked why he called me. The arrangement was that I would call him when I got home. He said that he thought I would be home. (He isn't angry or anything.) Then, I said that my friends would think that he had me on a short leash or thought he had to check up on me. His response? (strongly) "Just tell them that I miss you." I said that they wouldn't understand that. He said, "Who cares? Just tell them that."
I LOVE being with him every day and basically living with him. BUT -- I do not want to be smothered. To this point, I don't feel that way, but I worry that it will turn into that!
Any thoughts?
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2 comments:
Off buttons on phones and other gizmos work well. If you're going to be unavailable, be unplugged =) Freeeeeeeeedom!
And I was just thinking about you & wondering if you still Fitballed. Hehe.
Thanks for posting. Sorry mine sucks anymore. No desire.
I love you! If it's not at that point, don't worry about it. There's enough other stuff out there to stress about. You've told him what you think, he's told you what his motive was, just let go. =) Be cool, baby ;)
if you don't feel smothered, than don't worry about that part of it...
as for your friends.... that bothers me...
do they feel you have been ditching them for him??? or do they just not like him??? or are they single and jelouse (and maybe bitter too??) OR are you loosing MORE weight then they are since you are happy and in "luv"
the one's who are casual friends, let it go... but the one's who are long time SERIOUS, they could call you at 2 in the morning and say bring a shovel and you would and never ask a question - meet privatly and ask them what the deal is... LISTEN to them.... and then TALK WITH them, not at them about it...
but what to i know... i STILL havent found mr right.... or even mr maybe
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